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By Lloyd Munyaviri | L2MCoaching After Blaming Foreigners, Who Do We Blame When AI Takes the Jobs? For years, in many societies, when people have felt economically squeezed, one of the easiest narratives has been: “foreigners are taking our jobs.” We have heard it in the UK. We have heard it in South Africa. We have heard it in communities where people are struggling with unemployment, poor wages, insecure work, rising costs, stretched public services and a deep sense that life is becoming...

As part of the Monthly Connect Better Podcast Series we run at L2MCoaching (everyone is invited) once a month, a number of topics for discussion are suggested and this one is a popular request and I hope to do it justice: In relationships, one of the hardest conversations to have is the conversation about rejection, intimacy, emotional needs and unmet expectations. It is a sensitive subject because it can easily be misunderstood. When a partner says “no”, that “no” must be respected. No one...

Why knowledge alone is not enough and what we need to learn instead. We’ve been conditioned to believe something powerful: “Education is the answer.” Say it enough times, and it becomes truth. Build systems around it, and it becomes policy.Repeat it to selves and our children and it becomes belief. But let’s pause for a moment and ask a question that rarely gets asked: Education… then what? Because if education truly was the answer, we wouldn’t have so many educated people feeling stuck,...

Children learn from more than words. They learn from tone, habits, reactions, emotional safety, and what becomes normal around them. As parents, guardians and carers, we often focus on what we need to say to our children. We remind them to be kind, calm, honest, respectful and confident. Those messages matter, but children are learning from far more than direct instruction. They are also learning from the environment they grow up in. Children absorb more than advice. They take in the...

Emotional Responsibility, Boundaries, and the Power to Change Your Relationships “They made me angry.” “They triggered me.” “They always push my buttons.” We say these phrases so casually that we rarely stop to question them. But inside those everyday statements is something profound. When we say someone made us angry, we are quietly handing them control over our emotional world. We are suggesting that our internal state lives in someone else’s hands. And that leads to one powerful question:...

In recent weeks, public conversations around immigration, identity, and belonging have become louder, sharper, and more polarised. Words like “colonisation,” “burden,” “invasion,” and “outsiders” are being used casually in mainstream spaces often without context, evidence, or empathy and when narratives like this spread, we need to pause and ask: Who benefits from this story? Who is being blamed? Who is being distracted? And who is staying silent? History has something important to teach us...