🦎 Praising Yourself Without Guilt: Leadership Begins with Self-Affirmation - Do not wait for validation.
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Lloyd Munyaviri
EMCC Accredited Coach
Inspired by Chinua Achebe’s “Things Fall Apart” By L2M Coaching “The lizard that jumped from the high iroko tree said, ‘I will praise...
Inspired by Chinua Achebe’s “Things Fall Apart”
By L2M Coaching
There’s a quiet power in this African proverb one that speaks to anyone who's ever worked hard, stretched themselves, taken a leap… and waited for applause that never came.
We’ve all been there. You put in the extra hours. You showed up when it was hard. You led with integrity when no one was watching.
And then… nothing. No thank you.No recognition.No applause.
In those moments, it’s easy to question your worth or wonder if the effort even mattered.
But here’s the truth:It did.And you don’t need permission to celebrate it.
💬 The Lizard Teaches Us a Leadership Lesson
Achebe’s lizard doesn’t need a crowd. It just needs truth. It knows what it did it leapt from a high place, landed with grace, and lived to tell the tale.
So it praises itself.
This is not arrogance. It’s emotional resilience. It’s self-leadership. It’s knowing that your value isn’t dependent on the applause of others.
✨ What Does Self-Praise Look Like in Real Life?
Self-praise doesn’t mean shouting about your wins on every rooftop. It means:
It’s creating space to say:
🔍 Reflection Prompt
🟢 Bonus Reflection:
🧭 Final Thought: Lead Yourself First
Self-affirmation is not a luxury.It’s a leadership practice.
If you don’t acknowledge your growth, your resilience, your leaps who will?
Sometimes, leadership isn’t loud.It’s a whisper that says:
So today, be the lizard.Jump bravely.Land boldly.And if no one else says it…Praise yourself.
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